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I used to be so unhappy with many things in my life just like many other people in this planet no matter what we have, who we have or where we are there is an unhappy feeling inside of us. I used to hate that feeling so decided to find out why I was always unhappy and learnt how to start living a happy life.
SECRETS TO LIVING HAPPY LIFE
We all want to live a happy life but most of us do not know how to be truly happy and satisfied with our daily life. Today I will walk you through simple and great secrets to help you live a happy life but first, let’s see a few things that make you live a miserable life.
Few Things that cause you to miss out that happy life
1. Comparison
2. Holding on to the past
3. Not knowing what you want
4. Depending on other people to be happy or to validate you
5. Neglecting self-love and self-care
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SIMPLE THINGS THAT WILL BRING HAPPINESS IN YOUR LIFE
Learn to let things go
We all know letting go is not that simple! But learning to let go is a great decision people can do for themselves. Most of us are in pain and living sad life because we still live the past carrying old cabbages. Maybe the loss of loved ones, old relationships, loss of money etc.
When you decide to let the past or person go you give yourself room to feel the pain, analyze the situation, heal and think about something else. In such a way, you start attracting new things or new people who are better than in the past. Forgive, learn through the mistake and set yourself free from the past that weighing you down you will be living happy life eventually and realize nothing lasts forever not the pain, not people but happiness is a personal choice.
Always remember
"The truth is unless you let go unless you forgive yourself unless you forgive the situation unless you realize that the situation is over, you cannot move forward"
Lower your expectations
As humans we are all made of heart, at some point we all wish or expect something in return from people but we are all different. Just because you’re a good person or just because you love your partner so much and are ready to sacrifice anything for them doesn’t mean they are willing to do the same. We all should learn that disappointment from humans is usual it's human nature, So in each situation do good things because you’re a good person, do it out of love and expect less from the person or situation, as people we have different motives and needs that influence our decisions and reaction. In whatever you do, do it for a good course and expect less so when they choose their way you’re not badly hurt. When your expectations are low you will live a happy life regardless because you didn’t expect big payback from the beginning.
Always remember
"Plant good seed to reap good fruits"
That doesn’t mean you will reap where you plant God will repay in other ways
Choose your battles
Always choose where to put your energy. Sometimes it is better to avoid little or pointless arguments leading you nowhere. Some arguments are just drama someone finding a way to purposely irritate you to get your reaction. Learn to stay calm and observe that way your mind and heart will be at peace all the time. Peace of mind is the most valuable asset to keep if you want to live a happy life.
Always remember
"Be selective with your battles, sometimes peace is better than being right"
Be thankful
Being thankful is the key to a happy life. Being thankful means you’re satisfied and happy with things around you like your life, friends, family, money even your job. Thankful trait brings more joy as people enjoy being around you because your energy is so positive and makes people want to give you more. I want to spend more quality time with you, and give you bigger gifts just because you were thankful for little things before. The vibe brings more joy and more happy people and things that will make you happier.
Love yourself and take care of yourself
Love yourself and take care of yourself course nobody can do it for you. Learn your behaviours/traits, know your strength your weaknesses and love all your insecurities. Just know you’re one of a kind, there is no one like you and no one will ever love you the way you can love and care for yourself like you. Forgive yourself just like you forgive others, take alone time to relax and reflect on yourself. You will be happier when you know yourself better and love yourself more each day.
Remember
"The moment you accept yourself, you become beautiful"
Stop comparing yourself with others
Comparison is the happiness killer because we often compare ourselves with our peers in different places we live or engage the most. We often forget that we are not really the same we act the same because of the culture or rules of the place like school or at the job while behind the curtains everybody has their struggles to deal with some have privileges but we are fooled by remembering visual things. Bestie remember your life is a very unique journey and you’re different no one like you so just know it’s only YOU vs. YOU. Everybody has bad days, failures, struggles but everyone decides to show the perfect picture to avoid pain or judgment. We all want to be seen as we live a happy life even if it’s so far from true.
Remember
"You start to live the moment you stop competing with others"
Define what success looks like to you
Get your head straight to avoid confusion and dissatisfaction and create a definition of success for you. Knowing what happiness means to you will help you to be happy every time you achieve something you wanted. You may decide getting married, having kids, loving partner and having stable finance at 35yrs is the meaning of success to you. So every time you see your peer who is single go for a higher position in a company you won’t feel left out or a failure. By living your success definition you will live happily knowing you achieve your greatest goal in life.
Do good to others and help them feel better about themselves
As I said before do good because you’re a good person. Randomly decide to be a good person without expecting any payback. Smile to people around you, and help others in times of need. If someone you know goes throw a rough time check on them to let them know it’s temporally. Complement others and help them to be confident. Trust me going home with a memory of the smile you bring to someone’s face is the best thing.
Surround yourself with happy/good people
Surround yourself with happy people, people who like to help, play, be supportive, loving and honest. This will keep you happier as you are far from sadness and bitterness as we all know emotions and energy is contagious. So pay attention to who you surround yourself with. Happy people will bring you sunshine and you will live happy life always.
Remember always
"You attract the energy you give off"
Stay on your lane and mind your business
Minding your business will save you tons of drama and your peace will be great as you are after your things. You will be happy and motivated to work on your things as you always see your grass is greener just because you’re busy watering them. There are no mind games and you focus on yourself with no time for comparison. Your life will be with less chaos and more happiness.
Grind smart and get your money
Get smart in work and hustles learn new skills required for your work to be easily done. Work smart instead of wasting your time working hard on things that can be easily done. Remember you have to feel good to do what you do for you to be happy. So be smart in your work and get that money for you and be smart use your money wisely. Brokenness is a source of an unhappy life. It’s your money use it to make yourself better and live a people happy life.
Do not take things personally
Not everything is about you! Most of the time people's reaction is the reflection of their own thoughts/perceptions or reality. Just because a minor thing happens at work or in your relationship and the other person react unexpectedly. It’s not your fault someone couldn’t respect the boundaries you set in your life. It’s not you who cause him to destroy things it’s their decision to react or behave in certain ways.
Remember
"Don’t take anything personally. Nothing others do is because of you"
Romanticize your life you only have one have little fun
You only have you and you only live once. Why make your life hard?
Start painting your life with colours take care of yourself, buy yourself gifts, take yourself out, go on reactsvacation, be healthy, and use durable luxurious items in your house. Invest in your body, your health, spirituality, your dressing style, your house and your future. Make your life fun and luxurious in every affordable possible way. DECIDE TO BE HAPPY and you will live a happy life.
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