I know everyone has a dream life, but fewer of us give away our precious time to envision it even to create the plan that will assist to get to the dream life
I don't why people do that maybe they do not know what they want or it's just a busy life 😕or laziness???Or maybe they don't know how to create that dream life.
😉HERE ARE THE TIPS ON HOW YOU CAN CREATE YOUR VISION OF LIFE
🔴Find meaningful things in your life
First, you need to know things that make your life meaningful such as stable relationships, financial freedom, living in a particular place, having a house designed as your dream house, being able to support your old parents, having kids, or having a friendship with honest people. Once you know what is meaningful to you it will be easy for you to create and plan the life you want with your full focus. Because you will be happy building things that are meaningful to you and things that light up your heart
🔴Create a vision of your dream life
You may want to create your vision board and pin it where you can easily see it. You can search for images of things you want to be or you want to have and put them together on the vision board and start looking at them every morning to keep you motivated.
Start by visualizing your dream life in every aspect like what kind of house you want to live in, which kind of car you want to drive, how much money you will be making, what new skills/ideas you will be working on, what personal standard you will like to have, the family you want to build, maybe your career, what about your health! Body weight, figure, and stamina. In the spiritual aspect, you are done reading the full Bible and you can re-read it every year. Or maybe you want to start your very own physical shops for your digital designs.
Visualizing will keep you motivated and help you to know how you will feel when you get to that house, when you accomplish that goal and when you're there what kind of people will be there, your state of mind, etc.
Do not forget to pray for your vision board God will strengthen and lead you to your dream life.
🔴Create a Plan
You know what you want now. You have to be clear with yourself about what choices you have to take, be ready to learn new habits, and research to find out what support you need, resources, and mindset needed to get there
Then start building a strategic plan that will be very realistic with your daily life it doesn't mean you need an easy plan.NO you need something to shift you from your comfort zone to the levels where you do not have any other choice than to become the better version of yourself. Because we all know nothing better comes out of your comfort zone. Do your best to develop an attainable and exciting plan that will keep you motivated and excited about what is to come.
🔴Start living intentionally
Living intentionally means living with a clear purpose that is reflected in everything you do. For example, your vision in life is to be financially stable, have a healthy relationship, and build a solid business. So you can start by checking yourself, check your mindset towards your finance, and your attitude towards relationships. Searching in yourself to know bad habits and avoid them. Start learning new habits like being grateful, learning habits about finance and business, and communicating with your partner. Start doing things for reasons like you may start putting away a certain amount of money every month for investment purposely because you know you have to invest in your business. It can be planning a date every weekend without kids because you know you and your spouse need time alone to enjoy each other's company without distractions. Do even little things to strangers to be a good person. In this way, it will be easier for you to get where you want in life.
🔴Stay in touch with your vision
For you to not forget what you living for. Keep in touch with your vision you can create a system that will help you to see your vision board every day or for a certain interval of time.
You can save your vision board on your phone or laptop screen so whenever you see it you remember. You can also set weekly, monthly, and quarterly reminders to check on your vision board to review and check what you have accomplished. To remind yourself of your next move.
📌Always remember having a vision on your board doesn't guarantee you the dream life you envisioned, you have to work for what you want!
❌Avoid doing these COMMON MISTAKES that we do when creating vision life and vision board. These mistakes may distract you from planning because you may feel like your plans never work so there is no need to plan
1. Your vision is not meaningful
You may ask yourself how someone can envision something that is not meaningful to them🤔
Shhh.....Let me tell you in this world where everything is influenced by the internet it's hard for a person to choose clearly and wisely what is meaningful to them. It's like the world has to be uniform in all aspects starting with beauty standards everyone is expected to be skinny rather than be in healthy weight and the best healthy version of yourself🙄. Now days being unique is not normal society may see you as the one lonely or crazy person but in reality, we are all different. So these influences from your peer or community may blind you to thinking your dream is to have 100k Instagram followers and be rich without any strong source of income. While deep down you want to leave out of the city in your big house small farm and flower garden surrounded by trees. But because people don't talk about it you think it's not possible so you start chasing things you see even though they are not meaningful to you. Go for what you want don't let the world fool you.
"Just because they do not want it, doesn't mean it's irrelevant"
2. You don't make hard choices
. Life is hard getting to your dream life is hard living in your daily life it's hard too. You have to make hard choices to get out of your comfort zone and work smart to get your vision of life.
Most of the time we fail because it is hard for us to choose the hard choices because they sound so hard and uncomfortable. The moment we look back at that comfort zone we built for we think how or when will I be that comfortable again. Some es we lack faith when it comes to decision making our mind pause a little wonder what if this hard choice doesn't work out and I end up exhausted for nothing. We tend to give ourselves reasons for not doing the best we can and excuse our weak choices when we can take a leap of faith and move with a hard choice.
. . If you are hard choice turned out to be a bad choice it's not the end at least you know next time you'll choose wisely.....
3. You don't keep it simple (not having fun)
Working toward your goals is already hard as it is. Sticking to plans that are not comfortable is hard so don't make it harder for you. On your journey keep it simple have fun sometimes take a day off from work, budget for eating out, and spend time with your friends. Just clear your mind and stop abandoning your whole present life for your future. Working 100% of your time is an unhealthy habit that leads to burnout and this will make you feel like you were working for ages without seeing any positive change. That is when you start feeling unproductive and you lose your motivation then before you know it's 6months since the last time you worked on your goals. All your plans are distracted and your focus is on how impossible your dream life is.
📌In everything big or small learn to have fun along the way just don't lose focus.
4. You’re not reviewing your vision regularly
It's easy to forget what you're working on if you don't review daily or regularly. Sometimes temptations come on your way and make you feel like you're dreams are not that important and if you do not know where you are on your journey or what you've accomplished through the journey. It's easy to give in to temptations and go the wrong way.
So when you have a goal to achieve always remember to review your plans and evaluate your achievements do it daily if possible (it is possible just a matter of decisions) or weekly to stay on track.
So guys that's all for today, I hope you find this helpful😊.
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See you next Monday.
Gloria!
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